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Teaching Kids to Trust their Own Instincts
Special to The Truth
During the course of their day, kids
hear the word “No” all the time. And while some of those
“Nos” are a necessary part of keeping kids safe, the overall
message can be one that stifles courage, creativity and
trust in one’s own instincts -- effects that can last well
into adulthood.
There are many ways that parents,
teachers and caretakers can help kids overcome fears and
achieve their dreams, while making good decisions on their
own. And sometimes the world of children’s books can be the
best place to help deliver the message.
“Everyone, young and old, is blessed
with unopened gifts, and of the most important is one's
instincts” says Christopher Conroy author of the new young
adult novel “Anzard,” which explores this theme. “Children
can be nurtured in a way that helps them find that inner
voice. This story contains more than just Harry Potter-type
magic, it is a tool to nurture the inner voice.”
In the magical story of “Anzard,”
Conroy tells the story of a seemingly ordinary 10 year old
boy named Justin who is visited by an enchanting fairy-like
pixie named Poofy from galaxies far away, who helps him call
on his own instincts and inner gifts to not only find
missing parents back on Earth, but to change his world
forever.
Conroy, who wrote this children's book
because of his own beliefs about the power of one's own
inner strength and resourcefulness, is offering some
insights to parents as a tool to empower the life's journey
of their own precious children:
• Don’t ignore your instincts: “I knew
I shouldn’t have done that,” you hear those words of regret
all the time. From peer pressure to second guesses, there
are many things that prevent people from acting on their
instincts. Talk to your children about listening to that
inner voice. Sometimes, that moment when someone makes the
decision to listen to it, is the moment his or her courage
and confidence has a chance to blossom. Learning to rely on
one’s instincts can also be a useful skill where creativity
is concerned.
• Listen and engage: Many households
and classrooms still operate on the antiquated “children
should be seen, not heard,” basis. But this can be a
destructive mentality. While children have a lot to learn,
they also have a lot of wisdom to impart. If their thoughts
are invalidated consistently, they will learn not to
recognize the value of their own minds. Listen when children
speak.
• Offer encouragement: “Encouragement
and praise to a child are like sunshine and water to a
flower,” says Conroy. “It’s amazing what can grow out of
that cultivation.”
If your children show an interest in
art, music, science or any other topic, foster that
curiosity. Applaud their efforts. Acknowledge their growth.
More information about “Anzard,” which
has been lauded by critics for its writing and
reader-friendliness, can be found at www.anzard.com.
With the right encouragement, all kids
have it in them to be their best selves.
Courtesy StatePoint
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