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Black Mothers of the New Movement

By Rev. Donald L. Perryman, D.Min.
The Truth Contributor

... I think Dr. King would want us to also honor the many others whose lives were taken too soon and unjustly. For if you’re not talking about truth, justice and equality – what are you talking about?

            - Tracee Perryman and the Justice Or Else All Stars

 

Rev. Donald L. Perryman, D.Min.

Seldom are we afforded an opportunity to obtain an insider’s view of black struggle at the intriguing five-points intersection of race, gender, work, home and community. Overcoming persistent popular and institutional stereotypes of black women, the organizers of the 2016 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Unity Celebration were able to provide Toledo with a truly diverse ceremony that actually aligned with King’s hard fought agenda.

The keynote address was given by Pastor Cori Bush, an African-American woman, mother, pastor and activist whose work is situated on the frontlines of the justice battlefield in Ferguson, Missouri. History often overlooks the lives of women of color who risk their lives and work tirelessly to bring healing, health and wholeness simultaneously in the home and community.

Pastor Bush, one of these unsung black mother activists, agreed to also share her story with the Truth’s readers.

Cori Bush:  Thank you everyone.  Just sitting here and watching and listening to everyone, this is an awesome, awesome event you have.  This is an awesome event, and maybe you don’t understand it because you’re used to it, but I’m not used to this.  This is blowing my mind sitting here, and it’s blowing my mind because the MLK Day celebrations that I’ve gone to back home, the ones that my parents drug me out to, I had the look that they drug me out.  I sat there as a youth and we sang the songs and I listened to the speakers and I, “ugh, ugh, ugh.”  Even now, the ones that we have in St. Louis, actually the one we had last year and I think today, the protesters protested it because it wasn’t enough youth involvement, it wasn’t enough activist involvement. 

We’re talking about the new Civil Rights Movement and the people that were actually feet on the ground were not even invited to the table, but then I look around in this place and I see all of these beautiful babies around the place, I see them moving and working and doing, and even the ones that are in the stands, they aren’t giving that face like mama made me come, so I applaud you, Toledo.  I applaud you. 

First, I must thank my God and my Father for this opportunity to send me here, to have me here.  It is an honor to stand before you today to commemorate the legacy of the one, the great Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  I want to say thank you to Mayor Paula Hicks-Hudson of the City of Toledo, to Sharon Gaber, president of the University of Toledo, thank you all so much, and also to Linda Alvarado, executive director of the Board of Community Relations for inviting me to this wonderful event.  To the clergy, elected officials, military, and to you, the residents of Toledo, thank you. 

Now, as we were sitting and were listening to the Justice or Else All-Stars, I was looking out at some of the faces of the people, and not to criticize anyone, but I was looking out to see some of the reactions, because that holds me right there what they’re saying.  They’re saying say her name, say his name.  In case you didn’t know, that that’s a hash tag that we put when somebody dies.  Especially, it kicked off with Sandra Bland, hash tag Sandra Bland, say her name.  Say the name, say the name, don’t let that pass you, say the name, and so I was noticing that the looks on some people’s faces was “why do they seem so angry?” 

Well we should be angry because the melanin in my skin says that I can’t live and I don’t understand why.  My melanin is beautiful.  It won’t scratch off, it won’t come off, I can’t change it or nothing, but I could do it, if I could I wouldn’t because it’s my beauty, it’s my soul, it’s everything that’s in me.  And I’m not saying the amount of melanin in my skin makes me better than you, what I’m saying is the beauty that is you, don’t knock the beauty that is me.  Your beauty is yours, my beauty is mine. 

I guess I’ll go back to the script now.  So justice or else, is giving a voice to the voiceless through storytelling.  I absolutely love this theme.  It speaks of empowering everyday people to change the world.  As I walked up to this podium, or as people saw the article, the article with me in it, the picture on the back of the program, some placed me in a box in their minds already.  A black person, box.  Oh, it’s a woman speaking, box.  She has braids, subcategory to the box.  I doubt if she’s middle class, subcategory.  She’s a Ferguson protestor, she’s violent, subcategory, and the list goes on and on and on. 

And as this list goes on, the value on my voice for what I’m about to say for those same people gets smaller and smaller.  They start to care less and less about what I have to say, my words become invalid.  Invalid, unimportant and irrelevant before I even get started, so bear with my voice.  All the while, while you’re tuning me out, hash tag, hash tag, hash tag, new hash tag.  These labels that we allow our society to place upon us desensitize us to being separate.  It’s okay for us to be separate.  These new seeds of division are sewn in us each and every day through the media and popular culture and we accept it.  The more labels we have the less justice we see, and the less justice we seek, because everyone is consumed by their own box.  Dr. King spoke about not focusing on the things that make us different, but the things that make us the same. 

So yesterday I arrived here in Toledo.  A group of us had a dinner at a local restaurant.  A young lady there approached me and asked, “So did all of that stuff really happen in Ferguson?  Because you know, I was reading something, I saw something about it just yesterday.”  And I answered, “Yes, it did, and actually it was worse than what you saw or what you just read.”

Who reaches this baby about our world?  Who tells her that ignorance doesn’t stop?  Just because you’re not paying attention, it doesn’t stop little black boys and black girls, black women, black men, brown women and brown men from being killed unjustly, just because we’re ignorant to it.

That person was me for a while. I was her.  I was fed that story from my elders.  Go to school, get good grades, get into a good college, get your degree, get a good job, get a husband, have some kids after you travel the world and see some things and live a good life.  Yeah, I drank the Kool-Aid, but no one ever told me that walking, driving, thinking, blinking, anything while black could get me killed. 

Growing up as a politician’s kid with the police always around, I believed that if the police hurt you it was because you did something wrong.  It was because you were wrong.  You had to do something wrong because you know, we free now.  The Civil Rights Movement is over with, it’s done.  Jim Crow over with.  At about the age of 14, I started to notice something wasn’t right, that something wasn’t adding up, so Bishop Desmond Tutu said if you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.  The apathy and complacency that we allow in our communities are on the side of the oppressor.  Are we teaching our young people the truth?  Are we giving them the platform to speak their experiences?  And then if we give them the platform do we validate their voices? 

This is what happened in Ferguson when Mike Brown, Jr. was killed by former Ferguson police officer Darren Wilson.  As this 18-year-old baby’s body lay in the street in Ferguson for 4-1/2 hours uncovered, blood laying in the street, it was about 105 degrees with a heat index of somewhere around 103, 107, somewhere in there, hot.  So this was okay.  It was okay and we were supposed to just allow it.  It was supposed to be normal for us.  It was supposed to be okay.  We were supposed to say, “Oh, he must’ve done something wrong to deserve to lay in the street for 4-1/2 hours like a dog out waiting for somebody to come and scoop him up. 

So we felt voiceless because we could only stand there.  We couldn’t cross the line.  We felt voiceless, so we didn’t know what to do to be heard.  There was no script, there was no instruction book for us.  Remember, we’re everyday people.  We didn’t have anything that was set before us that says this is what you should do if this should ever happen.  All the boycotts and all the marches that we did, MLK Day and other different things, we actually, it wasn’t, we weren’t coming up against anything, it was all in observance of or to commemorate, so when it hit the fan we didn’t know what to do but hit the streets, use our voices. 

We were everyday people who just wanted to see justice.  So we questioned, we shouted, we cried, we sang, we prayed, we yelled, we partied.  Oh, we partied, it was called demonstration.  We helped, we comforted, we marched, we boycotted.  They yelled, they threatened, they bullied, they beat, they stomped, they arrested, they hogtied and teargassed.  We were armed with signs written in marker.  They were armed with assault rifles, riding gear, tanks, dogs, chemical weapons, drones, helicopters, special surveillance units, etc., etc.  We lived this all day, every day, day after day, night after night. We protested 24 hours a day, day after day, week after week, month after month.  We protested for more than 400 days. 

 (to be continued)

Contact Rev. Donald Perryman, D.Min, at drdlperryman@centerofhopebaptist.org

 

 
  

Copyright © 2015 by [The Sojourner's Truth]. All rights reserved.
Revised: 08/16/18 14:12:42 -0700.

 

 


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