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THIS LOVE AFFAIR IS OVER...!

By Lafe Tolliver, Esq
Guest Column

      Well, it had to happen. It was good while it lasted.  The warm encounters. The smug acknowledgements that all was well. The hand holding. The comforting words.

The messages that were supportive and which made me feel secure that you had my best interest at heart.

     Year in and year out. Month in and month out. Daily, I relied upon you and you always delivered. You were always there with the right words and the right explanations.


Lafe Tolliver, Esq


     No matter what happened, I could count on you to do the right thing and say the proper thing.  You made my world.  We were in constant contact. We were inseparable.

     If you said anything, I believed it and reckoned on it as being true and honest and something I could bank on.

    If that wasn't love, then I don't know what love is. I told my friends about you. I constantly mentioned your name. Daily I sought you out and you delivered and I was smug and happy and content.

    And now. And now, it is over. We have to part. We have to say goodbye. I need to clean you out of my mind. The large mental and emotional space that you occupied in me. I need to clear that voice that once was so reassuring that all was well in my world and I could rely upon you.

    Rely upon you even when you said things that were not always cherries and whipped cream, but I needed to hear it and grow from it.

    But. That too is over. It is gone.  Like a ocean wave wiping out a footprint in the sand, I gotta do the same with you.

    The thrill is gone as B.B. King would sing.  I now look at you with questions in my troubled eyes. I have to ask stinging questions. When did you know and why didn't you tell me?

    Why was I the last to know? Where did the respect go? I thought that you really, really cared for me and about me. But yet, here I am, sitting and sulking and wondering, when did this first happen?

    Was it me? Was it something I say or did that made you so complacent about our relationship? When did you first stop caring? What made you so lazy that you did not do the right thing at the right times?

    Am I the only one who has been treated this way? Tell me. Tell me something! I desperately need to know so I can move on and start again.

The hurt is real. The pain is real. Call me! Call me! Tell me that you are sorry and it won't happen again.

Anxiously awaiting,

Mr/Mrs. John Q. Public

Note: The above love letter was sent to the media, pollsters, pundits and newspaper editors across the country when the voting public woke up Wednesday and read that Donald Trump, against all odds, was the president elect.

     The letter was sent because the voting public soon learned that they were sold a bill of goods as to how the media giants and many of the newspapers covering this political campaign egregiously failed in their journalistic ethical endeavor to seek out and report facts and not their opinions.

    It was written to scold and admonish the editors of the big city dailies that, seemingly in lockstep, crowed the imminent coronation of Hillary Clinton over Donald Trump and they were wrong. Oh, so very, very wrong!

    The media sat in their ensconced bubbles in newspaper rooms and editorial boardrooms and pontificated about Hillary winning and the data that they used, we are now finding out, was seriously flawed.

    The pollsters were complacent and did not fact check or do sufficiently enough eyeball interviews to determine the rough mood of this country as they made a decision to vote Trump and not Clinton.

     The opinion makers told us their narrative of what we should believe and we accepted it, hook line and sinker. Save for a woeful few polling organizations, everyone else missed the elephant in the china shop story:  middle class and poor working people in rural America were fed up with their precarious financial situation, the fat cats and the East Coast and West Coast news barons calling the shots.

      This decisive voting bloc said no more to the status quo and voted in Trump, warts and all, and said what he did or said in his vitriolic campaign was not at the top of their list to be president.

     On their list, which the fat cats and media moguls glaringly missed was: JOBS...JOBS..JOBS... and a voice in how they are governed.

     Hillary Clinton missed it big time. Donald Trump caught the smell of it and ran with it and it struck a receptive tone with that voting bloc that took him to the White House. His roughhouse baggage of denigrating women, Mexicans, black communities, sexual misconduct, hate speech and racism was not a primary problem with his voters.

    And now, the editors, pollsters, media elites and highly paid talking heads are ducking for cover and saying their data was skewed for a variety of reasons.

    But, the biggest skewed reason was that the people who live in the media bubble and who tell us what they want to tell us, told an incomplete story of how the "other" America exists and lives.

     Their narrative was, Clinton...Clinton and more Clinton! Even Clinton herself believed it and thought it was a done deal... her coronation just a matter of time and patience.

    The Trump voters charged the bubbled castle where the Clinton Giant lived and with their pitchforks and torches, they hounded the Clinton Giant with their previously unseen voting powers; and she had to vacate her yet to be ascended throne and let Trump rule and reign in her stead.

    So, yes, the love affair is over and now Mr. Mrs. John Q. Public have to find someone worthy of their affections who will tell them the truth and not send them half empty boxes of chocolates and faded roses.

 

Contact Lafe Tolliver at tolliver@Juno.com

 

   
   


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